I once dated a guy who refused to go down on me. As if his dick tasted like an ice cream cone. Friends I confided in at the time suggested I stop giving him blow jobs, to give him a taste of his own medicine. But since I enjoy giving pleasure, no BJs felt like double the punishment. And how else does one get what one wants out of sex than by talking about it?

He was 58. She was 23.

Let's talk about bad sex
Giving head is becoming a chore! What can I do to…speed up the process? It also sounds like you enjoy going down on your partner, which most men agree is crazy sexy. However, there are still plenty of cool tricks to enhance a BJ for both of you. Some men just have a harder time reaching climax through foreplay and oral only, so this likely has nothing to do with your performance. Also, ask yourself if you really need to bring your boyfriend to orgasm every time you go down on him.
What do you want to do?
The world is disturbingly comfortable with the fact that women sometimes leave a sexual encounter in tears. When Babe. Her repeated objections and pleas that they "slow down" were all well and good, but they did not square with the fact that she eventually gave Ansari oral sex. Finally, crucially, she was free to leave. Why didn't she just get out of there as soon as she felt uncomfortable? It's a rich question, and there are plenty of possible answers. But if you're asking in good faith, if you really want to think through why someone might have acted as she did, the most important one is this: Women are enculturated to be uncomfortable most of the time. And to ignore their discomfort. This is so baked into our society I feel like we forget it's there. To steal from David Foster Wallace, this is the water we swim in.
You gave a blowie in front of 83, people you dope. Lesson to be learnt from slanegirl dont give head in public.. A picture has been circulating on Twitter and Facebook since last night, reportedly taken at Eminem's Slane Castle gig yesterday. It shows a cluster of men looking at a young man and a young woman. Him: shirt off, shorts down, cock out, arms held high, beaming with triumph. Her: fully clothed, kneeling, sucking. It's a grotty scene, and so are the reactions to it, because while there are two people at it in the picture, only one of them has been the focus for the attendant flack. She was given a nickname that's been trending since we're not reproducing it here, because although this is an issue we need to talk about generally, the girl in this specific case has suffered enough publicity. She was also labelled with epithets like "dirty", "slut", "rank" and "this is why men fear having daughters".