It was a complete turn around from what I'd previously seen from her but obviously it was something she'd been thinking about. Some of the guests talked about the importance of helping hard core mormons to be open and accepting to ALL their brothers and sisters in the church, regardless of sexual orientation. I find there are less disappointments when I know I am completely on my own. Propagandists in the media throw around the word patriarchy as if it is synonymous with anything male. I have so often heard wow you married a doctor The truth is I will always come second to his job and he will never know how lonely I am for him to put me first. She probably has not studied the real truths behind Mormonism and thinks her beliefs are the only way to become a God while living eternally with family in the life hereafter. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. I believe in temple marriage, and in the importance of those covenants. What do you occupy your time with. If she can see that YOU are what is important in the relationship, not what you or she believes, ya'll have a chance.
She's such a martyr and a great person for doing this. It takes him about 20 minutes to get ready. Ask her if her parents buy their underwear from a bookstore. There is no moral issue here.
Good communication, love, support and understanding are the things you should consider. This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. Going back in time, it was never encouraged for people to marry outside their faith and this covered most christian religions in the United States. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. She won't marry you.
You should also be willing to date other people. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the other ones out there. I have been that crazy lady with four kids alone at everything, school events, home events, church events. As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us. I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. It's a heart-wrenching story. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. I feel very sad sometimes but I try to stay strong. Too often, I think, priesthood holders think that being overly controlling, they are simply wielding their authority in the home.
